i have no control, over anything but my actions. as much as i understand this I don’t really understand this. growing up it was always black and white, no middle ground, no compromises and i never questioned it should be any other way…until now.
as i get older and learn more from my personal experiences and learn from those around me i can kind of see how not everything has to be so extreme. just because you aren’t giving 110% doesn’t mean you aren’t giving it 95%, if that makes any sense.
final thoughts..because i’m rambling
I’ll leave you with the same words my therapist told me at the end of every single visit, its not always black and white…sometimes there is grey.